When they keep throwing negative vibes even when you’re so sure u did nothing wrong. Please do think.



When they become rude suddenly even when they’re sure ur a positive vibe. Please do think.


When you turn them down and they change from the good one to the bad one. Please do think.




When they keep giving excuses when you’re trying to make it up to them. Please do think.


When they say no to your greatness even when they know it the best option. Please do think.


When they compare you with others even when the world sees you great as you are. Please do think.


When they keep making you feel guilty all the time even when they know you are not. Please do think.


When they don’t have your time but have time for others. Please do think.




When they think you can’t do without them by making you feel worthless. Please do think.


When they don’t appreciate you even when others do. Please do think.


When they get annoyed or pissed off when others appreciate you. Please do think.


When they belittle you publicly and privately. Please do think.


When they don’t for once remind you or tell you how much they love you even when you do so always. Please do think.


When they keep complaining about you. Please do think.


When the insults is more than the praises. Please do think.




When they make it obvious they don’t want u or love u anymore. Pls don’t think and love urself instead.


When the sadness, pain and bitterness is much more than the happiness, gain and sweetness. Please do think.


When the negativities ‘re more than the positivities. Please o think!




When they keep doing all these and after much complaints and talk from u. Then they keep promising they would change if they don’t at first and second chance Pls make itself worthful,
We all kw time waits for no one.

Don’t waste ur time to be sad

Don’t waste ur time making things right when obviously ur partner isn’t making any effort to.

Don’t waste ur time wishing and hoping (s)he would get better when obviously they don’t wish to

Don’t waste ur time ur time fetching water into an empty basket when u kw for sure that all ur efforts will end up being effortless

Don’t find or look for happiness in another instead be happy with yourself, let’s your soul get attached to every bit of you and let love consume you by loving u. 

Remember love urself first before expecting such from others,  be happy with urself before wanting happiness from others and respect yourself before demanding for such from others.