Don’t waste your time playing or having sex away…here are the 7 important things you should do in courtship before ever getting married to your partner.

PRAY. Be sure you really heard God and you have chosen right. You need to do the final assessment before you head the altar. What some singles call God’s will is a perfect disaster going somewhere to happen!

STUDY each other and be sure your personality agrees. What most singles are doing with sex in courtship, I’m yet to understand! The real work they suppose to do, they won’t! Study your partner to know if you can live with them in marriage. Can you cope with a hot tempered woman? Can you live with a man who lacks self control?

GO FOR COUNSELLING. Your counselor will bring up very important issues emotions are making you to overlook and teach you how to resolve them.

READ. You can’t succeed in something you know nothing about.”Through WISDOM is a HOUSE built; by KNOWLEDGE it is established…” Is what the Bible says. Most people who fail in courtship and marriage lack the knowledge to make it work. Read “Super Successful Marriage”. It will help a lot.

TALK. Ask questions. Pour your heart. Reveal your past. Be sincere and honest with each other. Don’t hide basic information about yourself that can give your partner heart attack in marriage. No pretence is allowed in any courtship/marriage that will last. Open your mouths and hearts (not genitals) to each other. Read “Lies That Break Marriages” for further help.

PREPARE TO BE A HUSBAND/WIFE by learning from successfully married couples, reading books, listening to tapes and attending marriage seminars. Don’t learn all the sexual styles in the world but lack good manners, communication skills, table manners, home keeping skills, diligence, wisdom,discretion including simple courtesy and etiquette! Be a great learner! Don’t be a dummy! Don’t be stupid! Don’t be daft! Don’t be crude! Read, learn, grow!