Girls, don’t let any Guy destroy your Spiritual Beauty

Dear Aunty Temilolu,

I have been following your articles and I must say you are really an inspiration to thousands of females out there. I have a few questions to ask you ma.

At what age should a female enter into a relationship? Is a 22-year-old final-year female student who has never been in a relationship all her life normal? Many guys have approached her for a relationship and she is of the opinion that she isn’t ready for a relationship/dating. Is this mindset of hers good? Unfortunately, the guys who approach her for a relationship are not interested in sexual purity. Also, her friends have mocked her over time saying she should loosen up otherwise she would never get married. What’s your advice to this lady ma?

 

–  Chinonso

My darling Chinonso,

Blessed are you amongst women I must say! You are a rare gem and I pray whatever spirit is controlling your life which is likely to be the Spirit of God never departs from you in Jesus name! This is because I believe you are the lady in question.

My answer to your first question is after your teenage years and from age 20. This is because I expect anyone that age to be in the higher institution and likely in 300L and well-grounded academically but then the relationship has to be platonic!

Second, it is indeed rare to find a 22-year-old lady who has never been in any relationship all her life! She must be under the influence of a supernatural force (laughs) -funny but true! And like I earlier mentioned- it should be the Holy Spirit. This is because she should have at least fallen for the charm of one of the guys asking to date her. However, I must not fail to mention that there are some peculiar beings who know what they want from life from an early age and would rather face front with so much discipline and go straight to the point! Also, her upbringing could have helped in shaping her thoughts and attitudes towards relationships with the opposite sex- her faith as well! She’s not abnormal- she’s just a special being who has saved herself a lot of future headache as a result of not engaging in sex with multiple partners and of course saved herself a lot of heartache as well! My only fear is if she’s not fully loaded with the power of God which brings about spiritual-intelligence, she may end up with the wrong person. So, she has to be sure she’s using her purity not only to amass enormous spiritual power but also to be spiritually-inclined and intelligent so she can decipher the right person to eventually date/court and then end up in marriage and also how to deal with men.

The world would tell you without dating, you can’t gain enough experience which you need before you choose the right partner. But I can also tell you, with God, you can go straight to the point without being sampled by men!

My darling, precious, glorious, dignified, world-famous and heavenly-celebrated daughters.

You’re the light of the world, a city that is set upon a hill which God has exclusively designed to glorify him, to promote His kingdom and be saluted till eternity! You are a wonderful wonder! The joy of many generations. A beacon to the entire world!!! The determinant of the success of the next generation! Please control your emotions, talk to your body, get into the supernatural and subdue your flesh! Galatians 5:16.

Don’t let any boy or man load your life with evil garbage from their lives and their sex partners. Yes! Sexual intercourse is spiritual intercourse, interchange. Why would you want to pollute your beautiful destiny because of a few minutes of pleasure? You don’t know where he’s coming from, who he’s been sleeping with, what he’s carrying in his spirit or who he really is! Too many women have had what God deposited in them to make them prosper and shine in life stolen through sex! Why take the risk when he’s not your husband?

You need to preserve yourself so your glorious destiny can manifest on time. Yes, we know the world is full of crazy men but there’s a fantastic guy God has programmed specifically for your destiny and that’s if you’re patient enough- your divinely-ordained husband & destiny-helper. This man needs you, your virtues and spiritual power intact to support him in his journey through life. That’s why you’re referred to as his help meet. You are a powerhouse. No man should defile, debase or destroy you!

May the mighty power of God arrest your hearts and may heavenly rain fall on you and quench the fire of lust in you in Jesus name.

Now, open your Bible, memorise Psalm 51:10 and chant it at least 40 times in the morning, Acts 1:8 at least 40 times in the afternoon and 1 Cor. 3: 16-17 at least 40 times at night for the next 1 week. YOUR FLESH WILL SURRENDER! Happy new life!