Aren’t you wasting your time in an ASSUMED RELATIONSHIP?

The reason why a lot of us are struggling in our relationships is because we ASSUME THAT WE ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP.

Friendship and RELATIONSHIP aren’t the same. One is defined and the other is not. One is focused on marriage and the other is not.

A guy is just been friendly with you but you think that there is more to it therefore you are “softly” putting pressure on him and complaining about what you shouldn’t complain about.

He has not proposed to you but you deceive yourself with the idea of “he will soon propose”. Therefore you want him to show you love, care and attention when you are just a friend.

How can you tell a guy who is just a friend, “When are you going to introduce me to your parents?” Madam what for?

When I hear stories of ladies saying that a guy gilted them, I don’t accept until I hear their story.

At the end of the story some times, the lady was only dating herself ignorantly.

Every fundamental elements of a RELATIONSHIP is missing but such ladies still hold on to the guy as their fiance.

Please stop this “I know that he is interested in me” mentality. If he is interested then he should verbalize it to you. Stop reading body language.

Before you waste more years in an ASSUMED RELATIONSHIP you better define the SHIP (are you in friendSHIP or relationSHIP?).

It is better to ask a guy now “Is there more to this attention you are giving me” than to waste five years and then be told, “I’m not interested in you. You are just a friend”.

Most of these complain that he doesn’t use to call is rooted in the fact that there isn’t anything within you too that should make him committed to you.

He is friendly with you when you are in school but once it’s holiday he forgets about you therefore you begin to do all the callings because you expect him to still have your time just as he use to do in school.

Once it’s holiday period your ASSUMED RELATIONSHIP also goes on holiday.

Madam stop wasting your time in an ASSUMED RELATIONSHIP.

Stop asking a boyfriend to behave and treat you as a fiancee.

Stop waiting for a guy to propose to you because he do tell you that he likes your food. So you think that is a sign that he is interested in you then you start cooking to his hostel. Some will go beyond cooking to serving their body to such shameless guys. Therefore he makes them his bedmate and not soulmate.

PST GESH