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From the beginning of time, we have been made to believe that a woman’s virginity is her most prized possession. It is seen as a worthy quality and a prerequisite for a good “wife material”.
This is a controversial topic because you really can’t tell that a woman is a virgin. It goes way beyond breaking of the hymen.
Would you call a female who has been having anal sex, yet has never had vaginal sex, a virgin? Or a female who has been having oral sex with her partner a virgin? I think not. Besides, virginity can be lost through other means that are not sexual.
Still, I wonder why virginity is such an issue with regards to females only and not males?
It is an irony that the same virginity issue has caused the collapse of some marriages because the woman was termed sexually boring and inactive.
Some women have been judged unworthy and unserious because of their “body count”. While their male counterparts are celebrated for the same reason. It is time we have an unschooling and reorientation.
Here are some reasons why men crave virgins:
Men generally like the idea of getting married to a seemingly “good girl”. Yet they keep seeking the “bad girl” outside the confines of their marriage.
Let’s look at some reasons why men would prefer an experienced lover:
This is not to say there aren’t inexperienced women who turn out to be great lovers, just the same way that body count does not determine how good a lover the woman is.
However, experience comes from the quality of the sex one has had, and not the number of partners.
Lastly, it is important to understand that a person’s value should be judged by their brain and not the state of their vagina.
So, which would you prefer?
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