WHAT CAN A WOMAN DO TO PREVENT HER HUSBAND FROM CHEATING?

Now when it comes to cheating in marriage, there are different types of cheating, but every body knows mostly in west Africa especially in Nigeria and Ghana when we say the word cheating the first thing that comes to the mind of people is sex cheating.

Now if the cheating aspect is actually talking about sex cheating in marriage I will personally like to rephrase question which should be what can a woman do to prevent her husband from sex cheating???

Now responding to the question properly, when it comes to sex cheating, one thing we should understand is that sex cheating in a nature not a thing of mistake, sex cheating is a mindset, is a mentality, there’s nothing a woman can to do prevent her husband from sex cheating cos his mindset has been fine tuned or has been caged with sex cheating and it’s like a normal thing to him and it takes the grace of God for a husband who have such a sex cheating mindset or mentality stop….

If a wife like spend all the time talking to her husband to stop sex cheating and also even get a marriage therapist or marriage counsellor to counsel a husband from sex cheating, it will not work cos everything still burst down to the man making this decision to stop or not to stop.

So when it comes to sex cheating, it is a choice and when a man chose to sex cheat, nothing can stop him unless he personally decide to make the to choice all by himself to stop.

That’s why sometimes I don’t think forgiveness is relevant for a cheating husband cos even when you forgive he goes back to sex cheating cos his mindset has been caged that way.

Personally I think forgiveness is not for sex cheating cos sex cheating is not a mistake. So even if you caught him for the first time he apologized and you forgives him still doesn’t change the fact that he will not still go and sex cheat on you…

Remember the fact that the wife caught him for the first time does not mean that the first time he’s doing it, he must have been doing it while they were in a relationship before they got married and while they are married he’s been sex cheating.

So sex cheating is a nature, is a mindset or is a mentality that a wife or woman can not prevent her husband from stopping it but rather it is the man or the husband that have to make his choices or decision to stop it with help of God’s Holy Spirit.