Juliana Antwi Asante, a marriage counselor, has advised women not to end their relationships simply because their husbands had cheated.
She said that if a man admits to being unfaithful, he should be given more respect.
She stated the following on Class FM in Accra: “If you come to confide in me, as a wife; when you even tell me [you cheated on me], it gives you another level of respect”.
“You, a husband, a man of your own; going out to do this and coming out to tell me? Oh, aren’t you a lovely husband? Aren’t you a darling?” she praised.
She thinks it’s pointless for a wife to face her cheating husband and his sidechic because after extramarital affairs, the man’s phallus is still intact for the wife to constantly have fun. After all, the other lady is not plucking it away.
So, you go and see your husband even on top of a woman and you go quarrelling? If you bring this to me as a counsellor, I’ll tell you there’s no need to quarrel because, excuse my French, after the lovemaking, the manhood is not plucked off; so, why would I fight?” she wondered.
In order to deal with unfaithful husbands and the conditions surrounding such instances, women should avoid physical fighting and instead employ wisdom, maturity, and tact, according to the president of Marriage Scaffold.
She believed that by being a good wife and maintaining her composure throughout the situation, it might be saved.