When I told guys without mincing words to end the relationship if the lady asks for money in just a week of dating, I wasn’t joking!
A friend of mine was in this mess, just a week into a relationship, she’s already calling him to ask for money to buy fuel to put on their family generator to charge her phone. After that it was data and some other pestering demands.
It’s too early darling. Don’t ask any man you are dating for money until you have invested into the relationship. The investment I’m talking about is not your body because when topic like this are raised, you hear alot of ladies say I see men like this as STINGY MEN, he shouldn’t ask for sex. How do you know men that are stingy if you’re not a Julius berger.
You see why a lot of men are of the opinion that ladies have nothing else to offer aside their body in a relationship. Don’t go and reap where you have not sown.
We all need help. No man has it all but you must be ready to meet the other person’s need too (I didn’t say give him sex). Meet their needs at least 10 times before asking for help 2 times. That is how to be respected and honoured in relationships!
Some ladies see men as their ATM. Once a man approaches them, his bank balance is in trouble. That makes you a sucker, a leech!
Invest at least 10 times before asking 2 times! You may not have money but surely you can invest your prayer, support, energy, encouragement, time, ideas, joy, love and peace in the relationship!
A successful relationship is hard work! To sit and fold your arms while waiting for the man to drop money on your laps makes you a robber, a thief and in clear terms -irresponsible!
If you desperately need financial help barely a week after meeting him, you’re shameless. let the relationship breathe! Spare yourself some self esteem and ask your father, brothers or friends instead! It’s too early to go demanding for money from a fresh dude! Most importantly, make your own money and take good care of yourself.
If he willingly gives to you every time, fine. Accept it with gratitude.
Don’t turn yourself to a beggar.
The same way them dey use bone deceive dog catch, na so some men don use money deceive many girls and sleep with.
Do not make asking guys for money a habit.
You are far bigger than that.
Respect yourself and he will respect you.
