Do you know that ladies hide so many characters before marriage. 

One of the funny thing about marital Relationship is the pretending act always witnessed during courtship.

In fact, this is where both intends couple will wore a cloak of camouflaged.

 

They will concealed every of their loopholes and unpleasant characters.

The brother will pretend as “Holier Than Thou” while the sister will put on her “Angelical Gown, with an extra carefulness oil with aroma” in order not to misbehave and tell story that touches heart.

 

Though, if such Relationship is highly uphold and supported by God, he will definitely persuades both couple to unveiled their hidden character and this stage is known as “Warning ⚠ Bell 🔔 ” before the arrival of the final bell Known as “Wedding Bell🔔 ” and after the rang of this Bell — No more separation until death.

But it seen funny sometimes, that a young lady whose character seem appealing while in courtship to the mother in-law, family members and intended hubby, will suddenly change after wedding.

 

However, as a man, you need to understand that women are much gifted in the area of pretense especially at the sound of marriage proposal.

But how exactly can you detect if a lady had deliberately concealed her ugly characters while in courtship?

 

Bro….. below are the Top Seven wrong hidden character you ought to be watchful in any responsible lady you wish to tie the nuptial in marriage, because some ladies can pretend more than chameleon especially during that desperate moment of getting marry.

 

A lady once told me that “she will never expose her weakness to any man who attempt to seek her hand in marriage, probably because she don’t want to turn off such man but honestly — if she dare attempt such trick with a crazy man “it’s obvious that she will definitely smell Hell fire in marriage.”

So, as I run down these hidden character …..I will advice the single ladies to kindly be open while in Relationship with their life partner because it’s better to marry a friend who knows about 70% of your flaws or imperfections than to marry a total stranger who only knew about your physical beauty and academic background.

 

1️⃣ SPIRITUAL LAZINESS:

A lady once got married to a nice spiritual churchy dude years ago but the day after their wedding, the dude beckoned unto his cherry 🍒 imported tomatoes juice wife for morning devotions ….but to his greatest surprise he heard

.…”Honey, I’m not praying anything again ooo. …because God has answered all my prayers by bringing you into my life”

Anyway, you need to be watchful and keenly take time to examine the spiritual well-being of that lady in question….

Bro, I’m talking to you….✍️

 

Please kindly take your time to study her and never be carried away by her consistent dwelling in the church.

Try to examine if the church is making any spiritual impact on her and if you discover that she is operating below spiritual average — I will advice you should mentor her.

Yes, Bro, Please try to be her spiritual mirror, a guidance because you might not likely have such opportunity after wedding .

This is the period to train her and if you detect unseriousness in hearken to your spiritual counselling — Bro, it’s either you back off in that Relationship or buried your head at your own peril.

 

2️⃣ DOMESTIC LAZINESS:

This one is terribly disheartening because many ladies are perfect in this aspect.

At this moment, some are yet to change their Bra for the past 3-4 days, with sticky pants and bushy smelling armpits…. 😷

If you visit their house without prior notice, my goodness 😳….. you will understand that many bachelor’s are environmental hygienic than all this indomiee ladies always parading on social media with beautiful photos shoot .

Bro, it’s easier to identify such caliber set of domestic lazy sisters by interrogating them.

Sir… it’s possible…..✍️

 

Please take your time and interview Her and I know God will definitely exposed her hidden weakness so that you won’t regret in marriage.

Now, if she is domestically lazy in the kitchen or house chores,

Bro, Hmmm! 😵

 

Anyway, it’s your cross because I won’t be surprise when she start requesting tomorrow for housemaid or taking your clothes to the dry cleaner and always cooking spaghetti 🍝 and indomiee

Bro, it’s your cross and not mine but I pray you won’t fall a victim of lazy and Dirty Housewife.

 

3️⃣ LACK OF TOLERANCE:

Some of these ladies are perfect in pretending …..But when you keenly examined their public relations 🤝 attitude with others folks, either in the market, church, neighborhood or social media, then you will have a clue of whom you intend to marry.

Please while interacting with her, be observant and take every of her response to heart …. cross examined every of her words and make sure you easily read her like Newspaper instead of been twisted mentally and emotionally by her beauty and packaging that won’t add value to marriage.

 

4️⃣ FINANCIAL MANAGEMENT:

Bro, if you unfortunately marry a woman that has zero mind in economized 💰 you are “Finished” but when you now marry a woman Who has high or sweet taste you are “Completely Finished” ☺

Anyway…..Let me stop here, the point has been delivered.

 

5️⃣ LEADERSHIP:

While in relationship or courtship and you discover that the lady always want her own opinion to surpasses your own opinion. Bro, you are heading into a shithole in marriage.

These set of ladies are very dangerous than danger and knows how to perfectly manipulates you emotionally and I called them “Viper Ladies”. 🐍

Though, nothing is wrong in allowing her to air her own opinion to any issue but once she begins to feel that, “she is right and her own opinion or suggestions must definitely be uphold at all cost” and when you tend to disapproved, she will silently feel offended.

Bro, if you dare overlook this kind of hidden character, you are heading for doom.

 

6️⃣ GARRULOUS:

It’s better to dwell with a deaf and dumb woman than a nagging woman!

If you got entrapped with a nagging woman, Bro, it will be better you are not Born because your whole peace will be drained off.

After church dismissal you will behold some pastor’s or church minister’s or men in the church because they are afraid of heading home to meet their nagging parrot at home.

Is that not frustration and marital imprisonment.

 

Now, while in relationship and you observe that the lady is indeed a nagging element…..she is radio without battery always operates without wire and you silently concealed it due to love or whatever you called it…… you are silently digging your grave and I pray God to deliver you before it becomes too late.

 

7️⃣ THE LYING SPIRIT:

This last hidden character in life of single ladies heading into marriage is disastrous. Telling a single lie while in a relationship is worst than all the truth you have ever told in life.

Lies is a silent cankerworm which drained off trust in relationship and always destroyed any happily built relationship within a second.

Now, if indeed you know you are a pathogenic liar…..

Bro, I’m talking to you….✍️

 

Please don’t ever expect God to connect you with an Holy Truthful lady because that is partiality and God’s isn’t a God of Partiality.

However, if you sincerely acknowledge that you are a truthful dude and secretly observed that your future life partner has a lying spirit.

Bro, it’s either you pullout and go into deeper prayer for God’s will sanctified life partner or your buried your head at your own risk….

 

A word is enough for the wise.

I DROP MY PEN…. ✍️