Who are you really in love with?

Bro John is a soprano singer in your Parish, any time he’s on the microphone you feel like entering heaven and never coming back.

His voice is Angelic

Sister Jane is a very good dancer, she can shake her body for Africa, what’s there not to love about her? Her waist dance is not of this earth

Bro Jude is a talented artist, he gifted you a portrait of you on your last birthday.

Sister Jennifer can…..

Many a times, we fall in love with people for their abilities, there’s nothing wrong with that, but understand that liking someone for their ability is as good as genuine admiration.

You can like someone for their ability, and that can be the beginning of getting closer to know them better and maybe this could lead to other things, BUT let their ability never be the only thing that makes you enter into a relationship with them.

ABILITY is Natural

People are born with certain abilities that they hone and improve on

ABILITY doesn’t tell of spiritual depth.

ABILITY doesn’t tell of emotional and mental maturity.

ABILITY is different from CHARACTER

Patience is character
Integrity is Character
Kindness is Character
Faithfulness is Character
Self control is character, not ability.

Ability brings Money, Recognition, Fame, but Character is what keeps a Marriage

A Man may not know how to sing and still make a great Husband and a Man who has the best voice in the world will be a Wife beater and a terrible husband.

People’s gifting doesn’t automatically mean they will (or will not) be great Life Partners.

ABILITY is like the GIFTS of the Holy Spirit.

CHARACTER is like the FRUITS.

Before you go and hook yourself inside bad marriage because of somebody’s TALENT, check their CHARACTER too.

Musa Gift