Most guys have constantly asked me “how would they know a woman truly loves them?” I just want to be fair and because I don’t just focus on women but everyone, I am spilling these truths to help you.
It’s one thing for a woman to claim she loves you and it is another thing for you to see through her actions and not just her words that she really does. Love is as love does and it’s visible to the blind. Love comes with evidence, Love is mostly an action word.
So to answer your question on love, look out for these signs to know if she loves you:
1). SHE IS CONSTANTLY PRAYING FOR YOU.
This is because she wants you to be more and to succeed in life; so because you are mostly in her thoughts if not half of the time, she is rooting for you.
2). SHE DOES NOT WANT A FUTURE WITHOUT YOU.
When a woman loves you, she wants to make future plans with you. She would gladly want to build a life with you no matter what the challenges are, she can’t imagine a life without you.
3). SHE ENCOURAGES YOU TO BE THE BEST YOU CAN BE:
A woman that loves you would want you to succeed at everything. She would support your endeavors by sharing ideas with you, sometimes job or business opportunities and many avenues where you can develop yourself. For her, she believes you can be a champion in life and she is ready to make sure you become that.
4). SHE IS YOUR GREATEST CHEERLEADER:
You can count on her to support you at all times with words, time, efforts and maybe sometimes financially when the need arises. This is because she loves you. But don’t take it for granted. I repeat do not take it for granted!
5). SHE LISTENS TO YOU AND WHAT IS IMPORTANT TO YOU IS ALSO IMPORTANT TO HER.
You don’t tell a woman to prove her love to you by giving you s£x. A woman of value will never compromise even if she loves you.
6). SHE CARES ABOUT YOUR OPINION OF HER.
A woman who truly loves you is always interested of what you think about her. Your thoughts about her is of utmost importance to her and most times she seeks your validation.
7). HER BODY LANGUAGE SPEAKS:
When a woman loves a man, you can see all the signs from her body language. She looks at you with admiration, she gives you a touch of support, she wants to mostly be around you and when she is with you, you can almost always feel the excitement. There is this excitement in her when she sees you, when she is around you or when you communicate with her.
8). SHE FEELS AT PEACE WITH YOU AND CAN TRUST YOU WITH HER VULNERABILITY, EVEN HER FEARS.
When a woman gets to the point where she knows she loves you, opening up won’t be a problem. She would want to always open up to you because she knows you won’t judge her especially if you love her in return.
9). SHE ENJOYS GIVING YOU GIFTS, EVEN FOR NO REASON.
After all, love comes with giving and there are times she would be willing to sacrifice her own comfort for your own happiness and safety.
10). SHE GETS JEALOUS WHEN YOU FOCUS ON OTHER WOMEN.
I am not talking about the obsessive type of jealousy here. But when you love someone you won’t want to share that person with others especially when the other relationship with the opposite sex becomes suspicious. Even God is a jealous God, so who are we not to show a healthy form of jealousy.
Last but not the least, Only a fool takes the love of a good woman for granted. Sis, because your heart is not a museum or some sort of playing ground, ask that brother what he meant when he say he loves you before you commit yourself to heart break thinking it’s love. Don’t waste your time playing with some uncommitted folks. If he is not gonna give you complete loyalty and 101% commitment, stroll away. Be so serious with who gets into your heart. Because if any man can just come into your heart, one day you’ll find it in bits. Your heart is not a toy to play with, and your life is no jokes. Be vigilant!
