IT IS NOT HOW MUCH YOU GIVE THAT WILL MAKE SOMEONE STAY WITH YOU.
Sometimes people are surprised to see the person they have given their all to, go after someone who has done little or nothing for them. If you have given all your money, resources, time or body to anyone but the person is interested in another person who, unlike you, has not sacrificed anything, then you need to understand that your partner does not love you.
The fact that you love someone does not mean they will automatically love you back. The fact that you give your all to someone does not mean they will stay with you or will not leave you. If you are asking yourself why your partner is leaving you for someone who has not done much for them, the answer is that your partner loves the other person and not you.
You give your all because you love your partner; if they love you as much as you do, they will give it to you as well. It is not how much you give someone that will keep the relationship, but how much you both are willing to give each other.
Stop comparing yourself to people who have nothing to offer your partner, yet your partner is so much into them and is not willing to let go of such a person for you. The problem is not what the person has, but what your partner is willing to give them.
Sometimes people are with you not because they love you but because of how much you give them. If they find the one they love, you will be surprised to see them using the resource you gave them for that person.
In conclusion, “people who are evil and cheat others will become worse and worse. They will fool others, but they will also be fooling themselves” – 2 Timothy 3:13 (ERV).
