If you’re a very masculine man, many women will be attracted to you – including and especially women who do not share your values.
Now whilst you should not expect masculine and feminine to agree on everything due to the different ways we experience reality, it is foolish to be with a woman who cannot value where you’re coming from on a moral and intellectual level simply because she’s attracted to you on a physical and energetic one.
Ultimately, you cannot cooperate with someone who disagrees with you on very basic but pivotal things. Raw energetic attraction alone is not enough for anything meaningful. A meeting of the minds is crucial for the meaningful – not complete agreement, but at least an appreciation for where the other is coming from even when there is disagreement – a certain level of thoughtfulness and charitability.
Just as you appreciate her feminine sentimentality will cause her to disagree even if she is aware that pragmatically and rationally you are correct (and only the best women can disagree whilst valuing your perspective), she should appreciate you are not as convinced by your emotions as she is, and are trying to do the right thing by parsing the bigger picture to make the best decisions for both of you – meaning you cannot indulge the sentimentality that she does, and that’s EXACTLY WHY you’re better suited to leadership than she is.
You will not get this from women who are attracted to you because you are manly, but are constantly triggered by your views and values. All they will do is create a cycle of trauma through the constant and endless conflict they create due to disagreement over even the most core basics. They will wage a never ending war of resentment against you, displacing any issues they have with their father or previous male partners onto you. They will suck your soul with their willfulness, disobedience and sabotage, and if you were dumb enough to impregnate such a woman, she will likewise turn your children against you. A total waste of your time.
So attraction alone means very little. Shared values are far more crucial. You cannot say everything to or around a woman that you would say to a man you respect, but if you have to hide your strongest beliefs from her, she’s not the one, no matter how much raw energetic and animal attraction she may feel for you.
