They are still not getting this, “you can’t be like him or her”. I wanna let you all know that you can’t be someone else even when you uncertainly achieve changing your look to look like them. You can only be yourself, you should and can only create a better image of yourself.

Such a shame, some wanna be like others, why should you even think that way?. You can only admire someone but don’t let it get to an extent of you comparing yourself to them, if u do that will surely reduce your self-esteem which will somehow give you the instinct to transform yourself. Do you know you transforming yourself, it like you transforming your whole life i.e the way you think, what you do, people you move with, your mindsets, perspective of life and so on. Transforming yourself will somehow disrupt your initial plans and your way of viewing things.

Majority would say, “I wanna be happy” but wait you mixing up words. There is a huge difference between being happy of doing something and having pleasure of doing something. Happiness is pure, happiness is an inner feeling, happiness is a good feeling, it always goooood but pleasure can either be good or bad, we have good pleasure (constructive pleasure) also we have bad pleasure (destructive pleasure). It certain if I should ask someone, “Does transforming one “real”self means you are destroying yourself or you are constructing yourself?” he or she might choose either of the two but I will shed light to both views.

Look at the question above, I mentioned the word “real”. Transforming yourself certainly means constructing and destroying yourself but constructing yourself is False because you are recreating a fake image not a real image of that person, destroying yourself Is True because you already damaged and destroyed that realness of you. So, you can’t be happy by transforming yourself instead you will feel the pleasure that you’ve done it and in your mind you look like that person(😂). Why forcing things that ain’t real?

Love yourself the way you are and don’t let anyone or anything changes that. Be real to yourself, mold yourself to your taste and not having to damage your real self or image but having to embrace yourself the way you are. Have the belief that, “Yes, I am great the way I am”.
Most times, have the belief that you are better than others and please don’t twist my way by start going around to say blabbing. Just have that instinct that you are better than everyone including those you are looking up to.

You embracing yourself and having the instinct you are better than them all is you having to start doing better than them all. You gonna stand out than them because you’ve already have that instinct that you are greater than them all.

LESSON
YOU CHANGING YOUR LOOK, WON’T IN ANYWAY CHANGE YOUR INSPIRATIONS OR MOTIVATIONS TO BE SAME OR SIMILAR TO THOSE YOU TRANSFORMED YOURSELVES TO LOOK LIKE. YOU ARE ONLY DAMAGING YOUR BEAUTIFULLY MADE SELVES. YOU HAVING A BIGGER FACE IS FOR YOU TO LOOK DIFFERENT AND TO BE AN INSPIRATION TO THOSE WHO HAVE SIMILAR FACE AND ALSO TO THOSE WHO DOESN’T HAVE SIMILAR FACE BECAUSE YOU EMBRACED YOURSELF AND YOU BEAUTIFULLY LOVE YOURSELF WHICH MADE YOU AN ICON. 

Why the stress then????

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