My wife, come sit on my lap,
Tell me how your day has been, how is your heart?
Talk to me; not about the children, the bills and chores but about you. How are you? Really? This is about you as a person, not as a wife or a mother.
Tell me about your dreams, how is your journey towards being the woman you are becoming shaping along? Any help you need from me? I am here for you.
Tell me about your parents, is mama OK, is dad OK? I truly honour the ones who raised you to be the woman I am now raising our kids with.
Tell me a funny story about you, tell me about your most embarrassing moments; I love your story telling and your sense of humour. I love it when you smile and laugh.
Tell me about your body, your mind, your health; is there anything we need to be concerned about? Should I book an appointment with the doctor for us my love? Is the temple that is your body that I enjoy in good condition? You should not only feel beautiful, but also feel healthy
Tell me Darling, is there anyone who has offended you? A friend, a colleague, a relative, a client perhaps? Has anyone offended my Queen? How dare they? Tell me and I will cancel their offense with my love.
Tell me Honey, do you have any fears? Is anything bothering you or worrying you? When I am sleeping peacefully next you, is there anything that keeps you up at night? Good sleep should be our portion.
Tell me Sweetheart, are you sexually frustrated or fulfilled? Is there any sexual position you want us to try? Is there anything with my tongue, hands, body or commando you would like me to do to you? Speak, your wish is my command.
Tell me Hun, how is your relationship with God? How is your prayer life? Are you bearing fruit? Is there anything you want me to pray for?
Tell me Precious, are you proud of the progress I am making? Is there anything you have observed in me I need to work on or improve on? Your opinion matters to me, no one knows me better than you.
This is me, checking up on the woman I love. I will not waste time chatting up or pursuing another yet you are an intriguing novel for me to read and uncover. Scripture says the man who loves his wife loves himself. I love myself so I will love you; I want to know new things about you. In many marriages, wives feel silenced, lonely and ignored; but in our marriage you will be heard, noticed and cherished. Speak my Queen, your King is listening.
Be the loving husband to your wife.
