Fast rising producer and actress, Sylvia Ukaatu have adviced that women find a way to get married even if they have to sit at Third Wife.
The societal pressure on women is still taking stand and has gotten to many women’s safe haven – social media, therefore the forceful need to get married – some end up getting married for marriage sake, some steal sperm to just make babies, while some get men to impreginate them and then pay them off.
Though it feels like these women feel too powerful or big of themselves to stay under a man or better still live with a man.
When you are a celebrity, the pressure is even worse and this is why Sylvia Ukaatu is making this advice.
According to Sylvia Ukaatu on a Instagram post, not every woman is destined to be a first wife. Sometimes you have to compromise and share a man.
With the number of women increasing daily and crushing that of men, this might be a final resolute and one very young actress of Nollywood who has taken this bold step is Regina Daniels, who would rather become a sixth wife to a rich old man than a first wife to a young man.
Sylvia Ukaatu says,
We are not complete without a man, get yourself a shield over you even if it takes being someone’s 2nd ,3rd. Women be married. For the records we all are not destined to be someone’s first…. Don’t be deceived on HOPE until time eludes you.
In support (a supporting comment), collector, @brospauly added,
My own be say, if you don reach almost 40 and husband nor dey and you get income to take take care of pikin and you really wan born, sister biko kuku Carry belle make you born.
Nor ask me who wan give you the belle. Many of una dey knack prick steady, many of una sef dey knack married men on code, many of una get one yeye boyfriend wey nor serious for life to settle down. Many of una dey carry belle remove am just because una dey reason wetin pastor, friends and family go talk. No wait for am oh. No wait for wetin church and pastor go talk oh. Worse come to worst, You go another church and live your beautiful life simple!
Time nor dey oh. Just like yesterday here wey I born my first son at age 30(too late by my plan sef) today the boy don dey primary two at 7yrs old; him sef don senior 4 years old fine girl wey come senior another 1year plus boy.
But if sincerely you nor wan born and you never see husband, kuku dey knack your real prick and Dildo dey go. Before we know it, we don old and die comot for this world. Na who we wan leave all our struggles and labour for? Na wetin person even dey work and hussle for if pikin nor dey?
But for those wey dem say God’s time is the best, make you sef reason am na. If woman born her first pikin at 40, by the time she reach 70, that pikin don turn 30, which means she get adult pikin to look after her for old age.
Life too bad at old age oh without adult children to dey look after you oh. My grandmother sister na clear example oh. Imagine 76years old woman wey nor get pikin. Not a single one. Na God’s time is the best dey cause am oh.
Go and born today. Husband or no husband, just born if your age don climb over 35.
As for men like us, we fit marry more than one wife and nothing wrong with am at all. Na una church dey deceive una na him make many women dey regret today for my former church.
Some don reach 48, husband e nor get, pikin Kpakpa, e nor get. You go just dey see the sorrow for her face everyday for church. Even make up nor fit hide am.
Sister take this advise, I kuku don give this same advise to many of my family members. The wise one take am and dem nor dey regret am today. The foolish ones wey dey wait