A woman meets a man on Facebook. A few days after she heads to his house alone.

There must be a way God made women. They are perhaps more trusting.

A girl steps out of her office. A car pulls up. She feels playful. She enters the ride. This happens everyday.

A certain woman, daughter of a major general. Left Nassarawa to meet men she met on Facebook in Lagos. She goes to them alone. She ends up in a hotel near festac. She is drugged and killed.

And women hear these stories and wont learn.

This Abuja woman that was found in a septic tank was 55 tears old. She drove to the boys in an SUV. I have checked her facebook page. Decent woman. Played these games that predict who you are. The game said she loved meeting new friends . That could be what those boys saw on her page.

People have to be smarter.

Boys in Kirikiri prisons woo women on facebook. Tell them they are abroad. They have foreign sim cards. They drag the stories until they get to the point where they are on their way to see their new naija babe. Then they are arrested at the airport. Then next , they are shipped to Kirikiri. Then the story is complete.

The girl comes to prison to visit her new love who was wrongly arrested at the airport. She begins to spend money on a fool.

There are cartels in our prisons running these deals. Everyday at Kirikiri prisons you see girls queuing up to visit wolves who told them lies on Facebook.

Your security and health are your most important assets. Before you make any move, any turn, run a check. Weigh the risks.

Ladies, you have to love yourselves first. Approach all friends cautiously and approach strangers with nervousness. Err on the side of caution.

Real men fear lifts. So how do you find them safe?

You cant trust like children . Yes you have a good heart. But there are wolves everywhere.

Brandon Modichinma